Saturday, January 29, 2011

We'll Miss You, Great Grandma!

Mat's great grandma passed away late last night.  It's been so long since I have had a great grandparent alive, that it's hard to believe Mat's great grandma has been going strong ever since I've known him.  She was definitely full of personality, loved life, and adored her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  She had a great run, and lived to celebrate her 100th birthday!  How many people can say that?!  While it's hard to say goodbye no matter when it is, I think her entire family will definitely agree that this is a celebration of life if there ever was one.  Her husband passed many years ago, and unfortunately she lost an adult son to Leukemia.  I hope that upon meeting her Maker, she was welcomed with open arms by her husband and son as well.  The mother in me can only imagine how much she must have been looking forward to that. 

I know MJ won't remember his great great grandma, but I am so thankful that he had the chance to meet her a few times during his first year of life.  I look forward to sharing  pictures with him and telling him lots of stories about her! 

MJ's first time meeting his great great grandma-MJ 5months old, GGGma 98 yrs. old


FIVE generations:  Virgina, Mary Anne, Sandi, Mat, and MJ
Celebrating Great Great Grandma's 100th Birthday-September 2010
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Friday, January 28, 2011

Bye Bye Binky

We finally bit the bullet a couple weeks ago and began Binky Detox!  MJ has only been using his pacifier for night time and nap time since his first birthday, but we had been discussing trying to get rid of it alltogether.  Mat probably would have been ready to do it sooner, but I was a bit more relcutant.  I'm sure there are many schools of thought on it, but I had just read an article about how the optimal time to try to break the habit is between 12 and 24 months.  The reasoning was that at around 2 years of age it becomes less and less of a comfort and more and more of a habit which becomes harder to put an end to. Who knows if the article had much evidence behind it, but I think it was the motivation I needed to give it a shot, so randomnly one night I suggested we give it a try and Mat was on board.  This was the last photo I took of MJ with his binky.  It was taken one afternoon right before naptime.  This was actually during Binky Detox week when he was still doing his best to suck on that little pacifier with all his might! 




I had read an idea, and also heard of other friends who tried this method, and it seemed like a more gradual and gentle idea.  I took scissors and cut the tip of the binky down just a bit the first night.  He immediately noticed something was wrong with it and tried handing it back to me as if to say "Fix this, mama!"  We left him with his binky as is and said goodnight as normal.  Unfortunately he put up a pretty good fight and cried off and on for about 40 minutes.  Just when I thought I couldn't take it anymore, and was about to go in and swoop him up, he crashed.  Phew!!  That was really the only hard night.  The next day we snipped the binky a bit more and the next day more and so on.  His fussing about it only lasted about 10-15 minutes each nap time or bedtime and then he slept soundlly without ever waking.  By the end the binky was just a nub.  He was persistent though, and would use his two little hands to try to hold the pacifier in his mouth.  There was nothing left to suck on!  We kept giving him lots of praise and encouraging him and reminding him that "binky was broken", and after a few days Mat asked if MJ was ready to throw his binky in the trash.  He did it all by himself!!  That night I think he must have wondered what kind of crazy decision he'd made because he cried and reached for the trash, but we reminded him that it was all gone, and it is!  That was all it took-we started on a Friday night and by the following Wednesday it was in the trash!  Night times have been effortless every since.  He still goes right down to bed with no problem.  Nap times were pretty rough for about a week but seem to have finally gotten back to normal (fingers crossed). 



How cute is this?  I snapped this just the other night, as I tucked him into bed.  Hands were folded as we said our bedtime prayer.  He's sporting his fave red silky Christmas pajamas and that wild curly hair.  Sigh.  Enough to melt my heart!  Now to break him of Cuddle Bear?!  No way!  Let's not get crazy now!  :) 

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Sunday, January 23, 2011

Things to Remember

This year I vowed that I would utilize the blog more and more to document things in MJ's life, so you might start seeing more mommy ramblings just simply about things he's doing or places we've been.  This is purely for my own documentation and with hopes that one day MJ will be able to read and look back on this time period.  I've decided that I would like to start printing the blog out...maybe turn each year into a book and keep it as a scrapbook of sorts.  I've found a few different website options that will help me do this.  So, in case the blog seems more and more active and perhaps more boring to the readers, please forgive me!  I guess I'm just a proud mama in love with my boy! 


It feels like MJ has hit a big of a growth spurt with the beginning of the new year; not so much in physical growth as in developmental.  So many cute things, and some not so cute, lately that I want to be sure to remember:

MJ still likes to practice identifying different parts of his body.  He especially loves to do this when applause is included.  :)  His newest parts we've been working on are his knee, elbow, and tushy.

Books continue to be a favorite.  Mat bough him a couple Seek n Find type books for Christmas.  I thought they were going to be way too advanced for him, but I was pleasantly surprised when after just a week of practicing he had the books down pat!  The book will small pictures of items along the left hand side of the page and then within the large picture he has to point and identify those things.  So, for example MJ might be asked to point to the clock, shoes, firetruck, etc.  Since he has a pretty limited oral vocabulary I was so surprised that he knew what so many of these items were.  Apparently he understands WAY more than I had anticipated!

He is starting to be a bit more verbal.  We have had some concerns about his lack of spoken words, but decided to hold off on sharing our concerns until his 2 year appointment.  But, given the number of words he's begun saying in the last couple weeks I have a feeling we might be on a roll!  His newest and probably favorite word is "cookie!"  He says it with a big smile on his face and thinks things like crackers and muffins are also cookies, too.  He's also been saying "baby" quite a bit and likes to look at pictures of himself and say it over and over again.  Other words often coming out of his mouth now are hot, hat, turtle, and car.  He still doesn't say the words "hi" or "bye-bye" but likes to wave at everyone wherever we go.  He always manages to flirt with someone at a restaurant or the grocery store.  He even called a man with a long beard at a restaurant the other night Santa.  Oops!  :) 

MJ received a puzzle from Uncle Jeff for Christmas.  This puzzle is of a barn and when you open the little doors there are magnetic puzzle pieces of the typical farm animals.  He also received a Little People Barn from Mema and Papa for Christmas that has the Little People farm animals inside.  One night as MJ was playing I was curious what he was doing.  He had pulled the puzzle pieces out of the farm puzzle and the animals out of the barn and was matching them all up.  So he had the magnetic cow puzzle piece paired with the Little People cow and so on.  It's certainly never anything Mat or I had tried to practice with him and this pairing of matches skill amazed me and of course got him lots of praise. 

MJ is now sleeping without his binky; more on this to come later!  We've been binky free for four days!

Our little guy has quite an arm lately!  He likes to throw, throw, and throw some more.  I never realized what tough rule/concept this was to teach.  It's hard to simply say "don't throw" because we want him to learn to throw balls and some of his other toys, but there are so many exceptions to this rule.  Almost all of his time-outs are now centered around throwing as we are trying to enforce the do's and don'ts.  Throwing food (does this ever end??) and throwing things at people or Bubba are big no-no's, but yet we try to explain that you can throw toys for Bubby to fetch or throw something to someone that they can catch.  It's confusing for one little toddler! 

MJ really likes to mimic daily activities like brushing his hair, brushing his teeth, and even doing makeup occasionally (sorry Dada).  :)  I always sit on the floor in front of a mirror to put on my make up before I go to work and MJ likes to plop down next to me and hand me what I need and even pretend to do his own sometimes.  He likes to climb up on top of the toilet and open up Daddy's storage cabinet and get out Daddy's brush and toothbrush and pretend with them.  He knows exactly which drawer my hairbrush is in too and goes to it daily.  He also likes to mimic us on the phone.  He'll grab our cell phone any chance he can get and pretend to be talking.  He even uses his hands and makes gestures as he's talking.  Hmmm...do I really do that?!?  lol  He likes to pretend text too, of course! 

He is getting better and better with using a fork and spoon and we are trying to be better about giving him more opportunities to use one.  He's even begun feeding himself soup thicker soups with a spoon by himself.  Sometimes I just have to let go of my dislike of messiness and let him go at it!  He continues to love blueberries and eats them at least once a day.  Some other faves include waffles, sweet potato fries, cottage cheese, hummus, chicken, crackers, pretzels, eggs, grilled cheese, soup, cookies, and of course any kind of dip!  He creates the strangest combinations like dipping blueberries in hummus or pasta in ranch, but at many times I'll take what I can get just to get some nutritious foods in him one way or another.  Veggies are definitely on his list of dislike.  With the exception of corn and sweet potato fries you can pretty  much forget it.  If it's green, it's getting thrown on the floor! 

He continues to love to give hugs, kisses, and knuckles too!  Man, how I wish he would NEVER outgrow that phase! 

His 2nd birthday is rapidly approaching and it's hard to believe my sweet little boy will soon be two.  While I love looking back at his baby pictures and reflecting on the past, I am so excited about his future too.  Watching him begin to talk and gain more social skills makes me so proud.  Experiencing the smallest of things through his wide eyes fills my heart with joy and I can only imagine that it will continue to get better and better. 

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Monday, January 17, 2011

An Unexpected Day

Today I was planning on spending a full afternoon at work, rushing home to eat dinner, and then leave MJ with the sitter while Mat and I attended our first PS-MAPP class (foster parent training).  I knew we were supposed to get a little snow today, but didn't figure it would have too great of an effect on the day.  I was surprised when I woke up though to find the snow already coming down strong and steady.  I received a phone call late morning that our training class for the evening was cancelled due to weather.  Then after Mat got home from work and told me how bad it was getting outside I decided to give in to the snow and just make today my off-day from work this week.  Instead I spent the afternoon doing laundry, some online work, watching a movie with Mat, and then playing in the snow with MJ.  When he woke up from his nap it was still snowing and it actually felt so warm to be in the low thirties!  MJ and I put on our snow gear and headed out into the backyard.  For the first time he LOVED playing in the snow.  He laughed and smiled when he toppled over and enjoyed trying to tredge through the deep snow.  I taught him how to throw snowballs and he even liked tasting it, too!  As his little cheeks got nice and rosey and he was giving me "Eskimo kisses", I couldn't help but think that this was right where I was supposed to be!  Unexpected day or not, I love moments just like those!



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Sunday, January 16, 2011

Raptors!

Since moving to Dubuque I have been quite impressed with the plethora of family friendly activities that constantly seem to be going on, many of which are free.  Yesterday they were having an Eagle Watching event just a couple miles from our house.  To be honest it didn't sound terribly exciting, but it was free and a good way to get out of the house for a bit during these cold winter months.  I couldn't believe the amount of people in attendance and all the activities set up for people of all ages to enjoy.  The Grand River Center (our convention center) was full of booths, displays, treats, games for kids, etc.  They offered three different shows throughout the day and we timed it so that we could see the "Raptors" show so that we could see a live bald eagle.  MJ was such a good little trooper and sat still, okay well not really still...but stayed in our area, for almost a whole hour.  A big cup of Cheerios didn't hurt either.  :) 




Milk and Cheerios help keep a little guy content.

During the show we were able to see a hawk, owl, falcon, and bald eagle.  The owl was mommy's favorite!  I'm sure MJ wasn't overly impressed, but he did like watching and pointing at the birds with mommy and daddy.




We even got a very up close view of the falcon.


They were running trolley rides to go Eagle Watching at the lock and dam in Dubuque, but since nap time was quickly approaching we headed home after the show.  Perhaps something to look forward to next time! 

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Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Cookie!

Shortly after we returned home from our Christmas travels, we noticed that MJ was saying a new word.  We were reading a book to him one night when he pointed to a picturea of a chocolate chip cookie and proudly exclaimed "cookie!"  Woah, where did that come from?  I guess all those holiday goodies paid off in more ways than one!  :)  He is beginning to attempt a few words here and there, but few are as clear as this one:






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Friday, January 7, 2011

Bring it, 2011!

Dare I even write a New Year's blog post.  Last year I was peacefully blogging on New Year's Eve about how I was hoping and anticipating 2010 to be quiet and consistent.  Then a week later I got the shock of my life, followed by great disappointment and sadness.  2010 felt like a year of dealing and healing as well setting up our home in Dubuque and developing a balance.  Although I experienced some great sadness this year, I also experienced many blessings as well.  First and foremost watching MJ continuing to grow and develop into a happy, healthy toddler has been amazing!  Motherhood fulfills me in a magical way and watching him learn and grow is the ultimate blessing.  I've also experienced gratitude for additional time with Mat; our new jobs have given us a much different day to day lifestyle.  We are able to spend much more time together as a family and as a couple, and even though I was so reluctant to make that change, I do realize that maybe it was for the best all along.  2010 was also a year of more family visits.  Being closer to home has allowed us to visit St. Louis more often as well as open our home more regularly to visiting family and friends. 

My greatest struggle continues to be making Dubuque feel like home.  While there are many things I love about the city itself, words don't begin to describe how much I miss the close friendships I had in both Florida and Missouri.  Thankfully through calling, texting, Facebook, and blogging I can keep up with just about everyone, but there's just something to be said for a girlfriend to go grab  lunch with, catch a chick flick with, set up a play date with or another couple to enjoy a game night with or share a bottle of wine with.  My biggest hope for 2011 is that I will make those connections that I think will make this new little town of ours feel more like "home" to me. 

I anticipate changes in our family in 2011.  Whether it's through a pregnancy of our own or welcoming a foster child into our home, I am excited to see what the future holds this year.  I am guessing that this time next year will be one of those "who would've thought?!?!" reflections!  I feel equipped and ready for this adventure and really feel at peace with God leading us down "our winding road" in the direction He sees fit. 

As always I am so incredibly thankful for our family and friends.  You are the treasures in our lives and I wish you extreme blessings in the year ahead! 


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Sunday, January 2, 2011

Christmas With Our Little Family

It's important to Mat and I to begin our own Christmas traditions with MJ.  We both have great memories of waking up with our families on Christmas morning and want to pass that along to MJ as well.  Since we weren't at our own home on Christmas morning, we decided to have our own little Christmas once we returned back to Dubuque.  Not sure if we'll continue this tradition down the road, or if we'll wind up spending Christmas morning here in Dubuque as MJ gets older, but for this year it seemed like the perfect solution to recreate Christmas Eve and Christmas morning on New Year's Eve and New Year's morning!  Since we returned home on the 29th, it gave us just enough time to wrap up the final couple presents and prepare for some family fun!

On New Year's Eve, AKA our Christmas Eve we had a fondue night!  I have 2 fondue pots that I have hardly ever used, but always have great intentions of doing so.  It was SOOO yummy!  MJ was in heaven because to him it was like two giant dips, we all know how obsessed he is with dip! 

Yum!  Four Cheese fondue and Milk Chocolate fondue
 After MJ went to bed, Santa came!  I was soo looking forward to setting up MJ's presents and couldn't wait to give him this kitchen!  Daddy couldn't wait to give MJ his riding police motorcycle. 

Stocking time!  Notice the two things in his right hand?  Both from the dollar bin at Target, and I'd say his favorite things of the whole "Christmas morning"....go figure!

Playing with his pull toy from his stocking

New froggy bath towel

Reading a new book that Mommy made

Reading a new book with Daddy

Loves his new Mizzou shirt

My little chef

Milk...MJ's favorite! 

Honestly, I think MJ was a bit over the whole present thing by this point.  We had to keep him coaxing him to open more.  Really, he was content to just play with his cars.  But he did seem to "get it" a bit this year.  After opening presents, Daddy made us a delicious breakfast and we all spent the entire morning and afternoon in our pajamas just playing with toys.  Pure bliss!  

Christmas with the Keyes

On Christmas Day we traditionally spend with the Keyes side of the family at Mat's aunt's house.  We debated just a bit about going this year, because Mat and I were both still not feeling too well and hated to run the risk of spreading any germs, but it's one of the only times of the year we have a chance to see the entire Keyes crew, not to mention the disappointment of missing out on a Christmas celebration and MJ being unable to see his grandparents and great grandparents. 

I was completely off my game though and forgot to bring a sippy cup, snacks or MJ's two essentials for a nap:  binky and Cuddle Bear.  Not sure what we were thinking, but I think we were both just in a fog and rushing around.  Unfortunately that paired with a cranky baby during missed nap time and all three of us not quite feeling too well lead to one ROUGH day!  MJ was in rare form; he cried just about the entire time we were there!  I captured two whole pictures the entire time we were there-this being one of them:

At this point, at least MJ had a smile on his face.  Mat and I spent the entire time holding him and trying to comfort him.  Didn't even get one pic of him in his cute Christmas outfit (not to mention those darn shoes I searched all over for..uhhh).  Instead I stripped him down to some comfy clothes and tried my best to make him happy.  At one point in the day I was rocking him in the bedroom crying along with him. BRUTAL!  It was just so unlike him!  We were supposed to go to Mat's parent's house that evening, but we had to postpone and just call it a day.  Shortly after we gave up, got in the car, and went home (I'm sure everyone was glad to see us go-haha), MJ konked out.  Little stinker!! 

Luckily a couple days later we were able to go spend some time with Mat's grandparents and MJ got some quality play time with them.



Then, we finally had our postponed Christmas with Mema and Papa (Mat's parents) as well as Uncle Leif, Aunt Peggy, and baby Lily!  Mema made a wonderful lunch for us and we all opened presents and spend some time loving on the little ones.

MJ hugging cousin Lily (4 months old)

Cars are MJ's new favorite!  He received cars from his babysitter, GiGi and PopPop, Aunt Lorrie, Mema and PaPa and Mama and Dada!  He loves to say "car" and "go,go,go"! 

Opening presents with Mema

Not one Christmas event seemed to go as planned, but no matter when it was postponed to or who was present, we took joy in just being together and enjoying the company.  One of the greatest blessings around the holidays is just being with loved ones! 

Christmas Eve and Christmas Morning

This was about the point in our trip where I would like to hit the "do over" button.  If only it were possible to get a Christmas re-do!  Mat and I had both been hit by the stomach flu at this point, as well as Jeff and MJ still recovering and now mom starting to feel bad as well.  Typically Christmas Eve is our day to spend with my side of the family.  Of course, the majority of my family just consists of us as well as my parents and brother, but my grandpa was planning to come over and enjoy a nice meal with us along with dinner and church, but unfortunately the whole thing got scratched.  No one was up to eating, so none of the food even got made, and no one was up to heading to church either.  Instead we spent the day indoors watching the snowfall (which was quite beautiful) and trying to regain some strength.  We did open a few gifts on Christmas Eve, and MJ got his Christmas jammies!  Kid you not, this kid did the happy dance and squealed when he opened these pajamas.  I think they might have gotten one of the biggest responses ever!  Should I be worried how excited my kid was to receive silky red pj's?  Ha!  It was adorable! 

In the Christmas jammies and ready for bed!  Notice the neatly combed hair? 

And then the crazy hair by morning!  Christmas morning-MJ finally woke up after 9AM.
Checking out all the loot just for MJ!  What a blessed little boy. 

Opening presents with GiGi and PopPop

Cheers for his new riding toy!

By Christmas morning Mat and I were feeling a bit better, but unfortunately my mom seemed a bit worse.  MJ brought out the strength in all of us though.  We had about an hour or so of adult time to enjoy breakfast and open gifts while MJ was snoozing away.  It worked out well because once he woke up then he ate breakfast and it was all about him and his new goodies!  We all loved watching him open presents and enjoy playing with his new toys.  Then, it was quickly time to get ready and move on to the next event...

Wild Lights at the St. Louis Zoo

We visited the St. Louis Zoo for the Wild Lights display at the beginning of our visit to St. Louis.  It was a first for all of us, but perhaps a tradition we'll now continue in the future.  I am SO glad we went, because little did we realize that shortly after this everyone would be getting sick.  In fact, the night before we went here MJ had been throwing up, but by this night he seemed to be much better and the weather was great so we figured we'd take advantage.  It was an unusually warm evening for December-upper 40's, so it was  nice not to have to bundle up quite so much! 
GiGi and PopPop with MJ-December 21, 2010
MJ loved just riding in his stroller (that's how I know he still wasn't quite feeling normal) and enjoying the view. He loved all the pretty lights and would "oooh" and "ahhh" and many of the displays.




He got to ride on a carousel with GiGi and Mama, too.  He wasn't too psyched about sitting on top of one of the tall animals, so we went with the bench seat.  As we circled round and round, he would look for Dada and PopPop each time. 

 He was really excited to visit the Penguin House too. It was one of the only places open at night to see animals and he loved pointing at all the penguins and getting the up close view.

Mesmerized!

Looking at the penguins is waaay better than smiling for the camera!
It was a perfect night, and I couldn't help but think about just how blessed we were. Christmas is such a magical time of year for so many reasons, but experiencing it through Mathew's eyes makes it all so much richer. 

Christmas Catch Up

My blogging took a bit of a backseat during the hustle and bustle of the holidays, traveling, and illnesses, but the updates are coming!  This one didn't quite make the Christmas card cut, but sure do love it!  Pure joy on my sweet boy's face. 

Christmas 2010