Sunday, February 20, 2011

Home Study Visit #1

This past Friday we had our first Home Study visit with DHS (Department of Human Services).  Our Licensing Worker, Chris, also happens to be one of the instructors of our PS-MAPP course we've been taking the last month.  That definitely made me feel a bit more at ease since I already felt comfortable with him.  Wasn't quite sure what to expect, but of course I figured having the house nice and clean would be a good idea.  What a great feeling it was to have the house super clean by Friday and not have to worry about cleaning a thing the rest of the weekend!  :) 

The visit lasted about 2 1/2 hours and consisted of paperwork, discussion, and a tour of our home.  He asks thought provoking questions that get you to think and communicate with one another.  I am quickly realizing that this whole experience is going to be touching and life alternating way beyond what I ever imagined.  I will honestly admit that I think I was naively coming into it with the idea of helping a child in need, but basically just wanted to gain a family member and be left alone.  My heart has really been opened and my mind as well, and I am trying my best to be prepared and open for what God has in store for us. 

We still have six weeks of classes left, two more home study visits, and much more paperwork I am sure.  It sounds like the licensing process should be complete and we'll be ready to accept a child or children beginning in August.  Our desire at this time is to accept a foster child from age birth-two.  We are willing to accept some special needs, as most foster children do typically have special needs to a varying degree.  There is a huge need for families willing to take sibling pairs, and we have decided that we would be willing to do that as well if both children fell within that age range. 

Really, we are still just at the beginning of this new bend in "Our Winding Road", but as always we ask for your prayers and love during this time.  If you are interested in a little inspiration, you have to watch this video.  The woman featured is now a case worker with DHS and also happens to be one of our instructors.  In 2002 her husband murdered their two children and then attempted to murder her.  Her story is so incredibly sad and awe inspiring at the same time.  The icing on the cake is that just recently she came to know and accept Christ into her life.  Words don't even do it justice, but here's just a little snippet...



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1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I was already so touched, the clip puts faces with the story, thanks for touching me aa always! You all will stay in my prayers! KW